Life and Friendship
If some friend of yours does something bad to you. You suddenly stop being friend with him. But after sometime, you start talking with him and soon enough you are friend with him. But it also has its limits. If the person has done something that would question the friendship or the person's character is bad, he does not deserve to be your friend. But that does not include that you should suddenly stop talking with him or make an enemy out of him. You don't have to forgive him. But the best way to do here is treating him like a stranger.
But even better, what you can do is do something good for him, according to the following Thirukkural. But for that you don't have to be his friend.
"இன்னா செய்தாரை ஒறுத்தல் அவர்நாண
நன்னயம் செய்து விடல்"
The translation of it, as follows.
"The proper punishment to those who have done evil to you, is to put them to shame by showing kindness, in return and to forget both the evil and the good done on both sides"
As a person, who believes that each and every problem in life has a solution from Thirukkural, I would adhere to this solution and make him feel ashamed, even though we can't be friends again forever in the life.
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But even better, what you can do is do something good for him, according to the following Thirukkural. But for that you don't have to be his friend.
"இன்னா செய்தாரை ஒறுத்தல் அவர்நாண
நன்னயம் செய்து விடல்"
"The proper punishment to those who have done evil to you, is to put them to shame by showing kindness, in return and to forget both the evil and the good done on both sides"
As a person, who believes that each and every problem in life has a solution from Thirukkural, I would adhere to this solution and make him feel ashamed, even though we can't be friends again forever in the life.
even though we can't be friends again forever in the life.
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But that doesn't mean u have to be enemies. Just be strangers.
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