You live, you learn
There comes a time when you have to stand up for yourself and say enough is enough. You go through life trying to please people and be nice because that’s how you’ve always been and also how you’ve been raised. But you’re no stupid individual so you realize how every now and then people take advantage of you. It is not a ‘quid pro quo’ kind of situation but rather a one direction only. You happily lend a hand and are available when needed unless major forces make that impossible for you to do it so. Then there comes not only a day, but day after day after day, that you need something out of someone else and they just make up excuses and you end up alone trying to figure out a huge mess it is a tad too big for an individual to handle. Let’s take it down a notch, shall we? Say they call you to go grab a coffee and you are there on time and everything goes smoothly. Then you spend months and months suggesting you could go to that Irish pub that has live music every Thursday and